Dating a shy man could be a wonderful experience, but it won’t be wonderful to you if you don’t know how to get along with him.
Different men come with different personality traits and a shy man comes with his own unique traits.
1. ASK QUESTIONS
Never assume; ask questions about some of his actions or things concerning him, because when you tend to assume, you could believe the wrong thing or take the wrong decision.
2. BE CAREFUL ABOUT CERTAIN PUBLIC ACTIONS
A shy man loves to be private and he tends to back away from attention in public. This is who he is and you can’t take that away from him. So be careful when with a shy man so as not to take him out of his comfort zone without his permission.
3. UNDERSTAND HIS NATURE
Don’t try to over think things with a shy man; try to understand his nature. He might not be the man to sweep you off your feet with his grand gestures, he might not be romantic towards you in the open, but he could be willing to give you the world in a way no man can.
4. HE’S VERY SENSITIVE
A shy man tends to be very sensitive to some of your actions and behaviours. He might not know how to say much, but it doesn’t mean some things don’t bother him. So you ought to understand his nature and listen to some things he says and what he doesn’t say.
5. NEVER TAKE HIM FOR GRANTED
Nothing would hurt him more than when he’s taken for granted. He also deserves your respect and like every man wants to be respected. He also has his manly ego and this will be hurt when his wife disrespect him.
6. COMMUNICATE VIA CHAT IN THE EARLY STAGES OF THE RELATIONSHIP
A shy man might not know how to express himself well enough in the early stages of the relationship when talking face to face with you. But he’d tend to be more open with you during his chat on social media, and from there he’d grow into being comfortable around you.
7. MAKE HIM OPEN UP TO YOU
Make him warm up to you by making him feel comfortable around you. Understand him, respect him and value him and with time he’d know how to warm up to you. He would no longer be a shy guy to you, even though to the outside world he’s still a shy man.
8. BUILD FRIENDSHIP WITH HIM
Be more interested in having a wonderful friendship with that man than a relationship. The best way to have a beautiful relationship with a shy guy is by being friends with him. Even though you are in a relationship with him, build friendship as well.
9. BE TRUSTED
Shy men know that they are vulnerable so they hold back a lot until they meet a woman they can trust. Be that woman he can depend on and everything else will fall into place. Trust is a key factor to winning his heart totally.
10. THEY ARE NERVOUS ABOUT TAKING THE NEXT STEP
Shy guys tend to be very nervous about taking the next step or making the next move. That feeling of nervousness grips them to the point where it becomes choking. Your ability to build good friendship will help him open up more.
Having a relationship with a shy man could be so wonderful because he’s ready to love you like no other, he’s ready to make you the only woman in his life, but you have to understand his nature and person first.